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13th Jun 2025

15. The Hard Reset

Seasonal Depression, MS Flare-Ups, and Saying “Fck It” to Strategy for the Summer

May fucked me up again… and I’m talking all about it.

In this episode of Simplifying Life’s Beautiful Bitchiness, I open up about the annual fog that rolls in every May—like clockwork—and how seasonal depression hits me hard (yep, right during Mental Health Awareness Month… oh the irony).

I get real about what it feels like to hit that “what the hell is happening?” wall—chronic fatigue, brain fog, comfort food cravings, and MS flare-ups I hadn’t seen in a while. But in the midst of the mess? There was magic. My daughter turned 10, and joy reminded me I’m still here.

You’ll hear:

  • The signs I missed and what finally clicked
  • How I’m embracing a hard reset (a real-life WiFi unplug moment)
  • Why I’m calling this my strategy-less summer—no rules, just rhythm

This one’s for anyone who’s felt like their body or brain hit the fuck this button and needs permission to unplug, reset, and breathe. You’re not broken. You’re rebooting.

⏱️ Episode Breakdown:

00:00 – Welcome to Simplifying Life's Beautiful Bitchiness

01:09 – The Struggle with Seasonal Depression

02:42 – Finding Joy in the Fog: Celebrating My Daughter’s 10th Birthday

03:24 – Questioning My Worth: Am I a Good Mom? Wife? Business Owner?

05:57 – What is a Hard Reset (And Why You Might Need One Too)

09:27 – My Strategy-Less Strategy: No Rules, Just Rhythm

13:32 – Final Thoughts: Take a Breath. Pull the Cord. Reboot.

🔥 What You’ll Walk Away With:

  • What a “hard reset” really looks like in real life (not just self-help fluff)
  • Why joy is a necessity, not a dessert you earn
  • How to listen to your body when it’s screaming “enough”
  • The beauty of ditching rigid business plans and leaning into rhythm

💭 Mentioned in this Episode:

  • My daughter’s 10th birthday (a much-needed joy bomb)
  • MS symptoms and seasonal depression triggers
  • Strategy-less strategy vibes (my new summer mood)
  • Crocheting, creativity, and reclaiming calm

🧡 Let’s Keep It Real Together:

If this episode hit home—or made you laugh, cry, or finally breathe—subscribe, rate, and review wherever you're listening. And if you’re doing your own hard reset? I’m cheering you all the way through it.

Links + Resources:

Bare Minimum System

The 10-Minute Pick Me Up

Read it here on my blog:

https://www.mmvirtualresources.com/post/the-hard-reset

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About the Podcast

Simplifying Life’s Beautiful Bitchiness
Simple Systems, Real Talk, & a Little Chaos
Life’s a lot, so let’s make it easier. I help busy, overwhelmed women navigate the chaos with simple, no-BS Life Systems and Bespoke Wellness. From motherhood and chronic illness to everyday resilience, we’re talking about real-life solutions that actually work.

Expect bite-sized, relatable episodes packed with humor, practical tips, and the occasional sports or movie reference (because why not?). Whether you’re looking to streamline your day, reclaim your energy, or just hear from someone who gets it, you’re in the right place.

Hit play, take a breath, and let’s simplify life without the BS.

About your host

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Michelle Martinez

Hey, hey! I’m Michelle, your no-BS guide to making life easier with simple, stress-less Life Systems. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re constantly juggling all the things (without a single extra hand to catch what’s falling), you’re in the right place.

I’m a wife, mom, chronic illness girlie, and mental health advocate who’s been through the chaos and figured out how to navigate it without losing my sh*t 💩 (most days). I love sports, crafting, the MCU, and a solid rant about the nonsense of toxic productivity, so expect a little bit of all that in this podcast 😏.

Through Simplifying Life’s Beautiful Bitchiness, I’m here to give you real-life strategies, the occasional sports or movie reference (because why not?) to help you build a life that actually works for you, without the burnout, without the BS.

Fun Facts About Me:
Favorite MCU quote? “The arrogant never do.” ~Thanos
Best life lesson from my husband? “Take what the defense gives you.”
Preferred form of therapy? Crochet, a 90s playlist that hits just right, and a hot cup of tea.
What you won’t find here? Toxic positivity, cookie-cutter advice, or me acting like I know everything.

So grab a drink, take a breath, and let’s simplify the chaos, together. 🥰🧡